2020-01-15 · Les Twarog & Sonja Pedersen
Celeste Tholen
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Imagine going to the grocery store and having your card declined. You call the bank only to find out that there have been thousands of dollars in transactions made to your account and now you have no money. Now imagine this has happened to your parent or grandparent.
Financial scams are crimes that often go unreported because they can be difficult to prosecute. However, that doesn't make them any less devastating. Falling victim to a financial scam can leave you, a parent, or grandparent in a vulnerable place. What's arguably even scarier is that it's not always a stranger
who commits these crimes. According to a MetLife study, 34 percent of elder financial abuse is perpetrated by family, friends, and neighbors. In this article we'll talk about common senior scams and how you can help your loved one avoid
them.
Growing up, we may have gotten annoyed by our parents. Perhaps they were embarrassing to us or something. Now that we're grownups, we want nothing more than to be with our parents and for them to be safe. Why are our parents and grandparents the target of scams? According to the FBI, seniors are the perfect victims for con artists because of the following:
We all want to keep our parents and grandparents out of harm's way, physically, mentally, and emotionally. Unfortunately, scams are the trifecta for this: they affect our physical bank accounts, they tax our mental ability to distinguish between trust and doubt, and they take an emotional toll on us. Below is a list of six common scams that are targeted toward seniors. We’ll explain each scam and how to help the seniors in your life avoid falling victim to them.
This scam is possibly the most evil because it tugs on the grandparent’s heart. Con artists will call an older person and when they pick up, they say, “Hi Grandpa, do you know who this is?” The grandpa then guesses the name of the grandchild and the scammer has suddenly developed a fake ID without having to do any work. Once they have an ID established, the “grandchild” asks for money to help with a financial problem (rent, bills, car problems, etc.) paid via MoneyGram or Western Union, which don’t always require ID to collect. The con artist will also say something like, “Please don’t tell Mom and Dad, they’d be so mad at me,” keeping the grandparent quiet about it.
Child or grandchild needs money ASAP
This is one of the most common phone scams. Con artists will call a grandparent and mention their child or grandchild by name saying they have been in an accident or are stranded somewhere and need money wired to them immediately. The victim wires the money to the person and there are no traces.
In fact, my brother-in-law’s grandmother was a victim of this. Fortunately, she called her daughter to see if everything was okay with her grandson and realized it was a scam before transferring the money.
How to help your loved one avoid this scam
There’s never a good time to fall victim of a scam but if there is a worst time, it’s during a grieving period when the senior is emotional and vulnerable after losing their loved one. There are a couple scenarios where you can be a victim of a scam during a funeral.
The first situation to be cautious about is scammers attending funerals for complete strangers and then taking advantage of the grieving widow or widower. The perpetrator makes claims that the deceased had debt with them and will try to extort money from the relatives to settle these fake debts.
The other situation is in regard to funeral homes. Funeral directors may add unnecessary charges to the bill and family members may not realize it because they are unfamiliar with the cost of funeral services. One example is when funeral directors insist that a casket must be purchased even for direct cremation. In these cases, a cardboard casket can be used instead of an expensive burial casket.
How to help your loved one avoid this scam
U.S. citizens over the age of 65 qualify for Medicare, so scam artists don’t have to research what health insurance company senior citizens are using. These criminals often pose as a Medicare rep to get senior citizens to give them personal information. Then the perpetrators use the victim’s information to bill Medicare and pocket the money.
How to help your loved one avoid this scam
Perpetrators call elderly taxpayers saying they owe money and they demand it immediately. They threaten them with arrest, deportation, or losing their driver’s license. If your parent or grandparent has caller ID, it may show up as the IRS. Anytime someone calls saying they are with the IRS and you owe them money, it is a scam. The IRS doesn’t call people; the IRS sends letters in the mail.
How to help your loved one avoid this scam
This is a scheme you’re probably well aware of because it’s one of the most common. Elderly people make twice as many purchases over the phone than the rest of the population, making them great prey for fake calls. Senior citizens are commonly more comfortable with shopping over the phone than they are with shopping online, even though there is risk to both.
The dangerous thing about over-the-phone scams is that there is no paper trail and no in-person interaction, making these scams difficult to trace. Another terrible thing is that if the person falls for it once and makes a purchase, the con artist will most likely share the person’s name with other scammers, increasing their chances of making a deal. This results in the person being scammed over and over.
How to help your loved one avoid this scam
These are common scams for anyone but seniors fall victim to them more often due to their unfamiliarity with the internet and all its features. Emails are sent to elderly asking them to update their profile information for online accounts, this includes bank profiles, online shopping accounts, social media accounts, and more. They verify their information and the scammer gets to do whatever they want with it.
How to help your loved one avoid this scam
Don’t be ashamed if you’ve been a victim of a scam. Con artists are coming out with new ways to trick people into falling for their schemes every day. It’s important that you know you are not alone. Speak with someone you trust about it and know that doing nothing could make it worse. Have the phone numbers to the police, your bank, and Adult Protective Services to get help. Contact a loved one for help. Cancel your credit/debit card and have your financial institution send you a new one. Call the police to report it. And remember, you are not alone in this.